You Owe Her an Apology

When I was deciding what outfit to wear to the US Open today to see my favorite athlete of all-time vie for her 24th Grand Slam title, I knew I wanted to make a statement that both felt of-the-moment and of-Serena. So I settled on a Nasty Woman t-shirt (hey, Sam Bee)...

Define “Consent”

Everybody’s woke bae/BFF Aziz Ansari was thrown into the #MeToo spotlight over the weekend after babe.net published a story involving a sexual encounter between Ansari and a 23 year old woman. An encounter she defined as sexual assault and one in which he...

The Reckoning is Terrifying

I can’t stop thinking about Rebecca Traister’s amazing piece in NY Mag about the so-called “reckoning” that is happening post-Weinstein. I would never do her the disservice of trying to paraphrase or cause you to not read it, so please, yes,...

Women’s Music, Too

In September, I finished NPR’s Greatest 150 Albums by Women. A project that took me two months to finish. I heard Ann Powers discussing the project with Steve Inskeep on Morning Edition on the drive into work in late July. I’ve never been so excited to open Spotify...

Me Too – > You Too, Men

I’ve spoken about this before, but I feel a responsibility to again, so here goes. There is a fundamental flaw in the way we talk about sexual assault, harassment, and rape. The below, from RAINN’s main statistics page, is a perfect example:   The...